Whole day i was thinking to get back to writing, as this is something i always enjoy. Though for some time i was not much available for writing, as i have mentioned in my earlier posts, but surely now i will not break this good routine, unless there is something very exceptional.
Today i was talking to a girl about her interests and goals. I was surprised to hear her words as this was something i wasn't expecting. The words what she said were really nice and impressive but from the ground she was saying those words was totally different. She said ;"I am a student of commerce, pursuing M.com. I am part time social activist and want to be like Malala." Wow! that's really good to hear these type of words from someone from a very small place in Kerala.
I don't think i have to tell here who is Malala? Malala Yousafzai has won Nobel prize (peace) 2014, jointly with an Indian activist Kailash Satyarthi. She has been an activist to promote girls education in Pakistan after surviving an attack. It is not only Malala who has been working for women's rights, but there are other plenty of women around the world , who are struggling for women's rights an working hard to achieve their goals.
Women's rights has always been a topic of discussion for long time, but still why women are suffering from the dominating nature of this world? This is a question we must ask ourselves. The condition of women in India and in European countries are getting better but still in the middle east and Countries like Pakistan, Afghanistan, the hypocrite people are not allowing them to grow up. C'mon they are not animal, they are also human, who devote their whole life for family, children and husband. They Sacrifice their charm their young age to grow their children, to feed them , to take care of their husbands, and parents. Isn't that a sacrifice? Yes it is, and everyone has to accept it.
I won't say that condition of women is very good in India as still at many places, specially in rural areas, thousands of women faces molestation and violence daily. The husband who brought her home after promising her parents a lot of things, including her safety and care, forgets about those promises and starts treating her a slave, Why? I mean is it ok?No it is Not! It doesn't happen in everywhere but in rural areas, if you take any local newspaper and start reading it, you will find most of the news are related to violence, rapes and dowries.
I remember how after Nirbhaya Case in delhi, all social networking sites were flooded with the slogans related to "Eve Safety", "Women rights" and "Nirbhaya". Almost every individual who was aware of it, contributed by changing his profile pic with a black dot, or by writing some message with hastag Nirbhaya and many more stuff. Where are those people now? Will this type of internet posts bring the change? Ask this question to yourself , surely the answer will be No! Nothing will change unless and until our souls and minds will be pure, and our feelings will change. If these happen then surely every women will get respect she deserves.
This is not the case only in India, but same thing, in same or another manner, happens in European countries also. I was having conversation with one of my polish friend. She told me that her mother and she have faced various emotional breakdowns, and the reason behind every breakdown was a Man , who didn't give them the rights and respect they deserved. Finally they took an stand and fought for their rights, raised their voice and gained it. This is something what is to be done by every women.
Well, these all things are right for the women who has genuine and pure feelings, who wants to do something good in her life, who want to gain something great or simply want to live a peaceful happy life. But what if the woman of the other kind takes a stand and talk about rights, respect and every other thing? than that becomes a problem. That time a Man gets assaulted, and molested. I was reading a post by some person in Pune, Maharashtra, who shared his experience. This poor fellow was travelling in a crowded city bus. He saw a girl standing with a heavy bag. This guy , being a gentlemen, offered his seat to this girl. Now guess what was the reward? He received a warm slap from that girl. The whole crowed stared at him as the girl shouted that the guy was hitting on her. Now i don't know what was the condition there, but after reading that well elaborated story , what i could make out was that girl might be frustrated on something and she poured her anger on that guy. The whole crowed started shouting on that guy and finally he came down from the bus at the very next stop.
About the above matter what i can say is, this was a kind of misuse of her feminine rights. Women should be respected always, but this doesn't mean that the man is always a culprit. Victim can be any of us, man or women , so as the culprit. But this thing everyone has to keep in mind that unless and until there is really some mistake, none of them shall be treated in bad manner or in disrespectful way. In fact women should be given more respect as she devotes her life for the family.
Fellas, all and all if you see the women should be given her rights. Give a stand to her dreams, Treat her with dignity and Respect her. We have her in form of Mother, sister, friend, lover and soul mate.
Thinking has to be changed, and i hope after reading this , we all will respect the SHE among us.
I hope you have enjoyed reading this blog and surely will bring a change. I would like to know your views. Please leave your comments. Your suggestions are welcome.
Today i was talking to a girl about her interests and goals. I was surprised to hear her words as this was something i wasn't expecting. The words what she said were really nice and impressive but from the ground she was saying those words was totally different. She said ;"I am a student of commerce, pursuing M.com. I am part time social activist and want to be like Malala." Wow! that's really good to hear these type of words from someone from a very small place in Kerala.
I don't think i have to tell here who is Malala? Malala Yousafzai has won Nobel prize (peace) 2014, jointly with an Indian activist Kailash Satyarthi. She has been an activist to promote girls education in Pakistan after surviving an attack. It is not only Malala who has been working for women's rights, but there are other plenty of women around the world , who are struggling for women's rights an working hard to achieve their goals.
Women's rights has always been a topic of discussion for long time, but still why women are suffering from the dominating nature of this world? This is a question we must ask ourselves. The condition of women in India and in European countries are getting better but still in the middle east and Countries like Pakistan, Afghanistan, the hypocrite people are not allowing them to grow up. C'mon they are not animal, they are also human, who devote their whole life for family, children and husband. They Sacrifice their charm their young age to grow their children, to feed them , to take care of their husbands, and parents. Isn't that a sacrifice? Yes it is, and everyone has to accept it.
I won't say that condition of women is very good in India as still at many places, specially in rural areas, thousands of women faces molestation and violence daily. The husband who brought her home after promising her parents a lot of things, including her safety and care, forgets about those promises and starts treating her a slave, Why? I mean is it ok?No it is Not! It doesn't happen in everywhere but in rural areas, if you take any local newspaper and start reading it, you will find most of the news are related to violence, rapes and dowries.
I remember how after Nirbhaya Case in delhi, all social networking sites were flooded with the slogans related to "Eve Safety", "Women rights" and "Nirbhaya". Almost every individual who was aware of it, contributed by changing his profile pic with a black dot, or by writing some message with hastag Nirbhaya and many more stuff. Where are those people now? Will this type of internet posts bring the change? Ask this question to yourself , surely the answer will be No! Nothing will change unless and until our souls and minds will be pure, and our feelings will change. If these happen then surely every women will get respect she deserves.
This is not the case only in India, but same thing, in same or another manner, happens in European countries also. I was having conversation with one of my polish friend. She told me that her mother and she have faced various emotional breakdowns, and the reason behind every breakdown was a Man , who didn't give them the rights and respect they deserved. Finally they took an stand and fought for their rights, raised their voice and gained it. This is something what is to be done by every women.
Well, these all things are right for the women who has genuine and pure feelings, who wants to do something good in her life, who want to gain something great or simply want to live a peaceful happy life. But what if the woman of the other kind takes a stand and talk about rights, respect and every other thing? than that becomes a problem. That time a Man gets assaulted, and molested. I was reading a post by some person in Pune, Maharashtra, who shared his experience. This poor fellow was travelling in a crowded city bus. He saw a girl standing with a heavy bag. This guy , being a gentlemen, offered his seat to this girl. Now guess what was the reward? He received a warm slap from that girl. The whole crowed stared at him as the girl shouted that the guy was hitting on her. Now i don't know what was the condition there, but after reading that well elaborated story , what i could make out was that girl might be frustrated on something and she poured her anger on that guy. The whole crowed started shouting on that guy and finally he came down from the bus at the very next stop.
About the above matter what i can say is, this was a kind of misuse of her feminine rights. Women should be respected always, but this doesn't mean that the man is always a culprit. Victim can be any of us, man or women , so as the culprit. But this thing everyone has to keep in mind that unless and until there is really some mistake, none of them shall be treated in bad manner or in disrespectful way. In fact women should be given more respect as she devotes her life for the family.
Fellas, all and all if you see the women should be given her rights. Give a stand to her dreams, Treat her with dignity and Respect her. We have her in form of Mother, sister, friend, lover and soul mate.
Thinking has to be changed, and i hope after reading this , we all will respect the SHE among us.
I hope you have enjoyed reading this blog and surely will bring a change. I would like to know your views. Please leave your comments. Your suggestions are welcome.
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